What will come first, ddd or baby!

[momjess]

I don’t know what’s worse, anticipating the ddd or anticipating going into labor. The race is on! Anyone want to take a guess at which will come first?

Filed and accepted 2/1
Could order return trans 2/7
Path act message 2/8 (eitc and actc)

Baby’s estimated due date 3/12
Baby #12
8 previous babies were born between 35-38 weeks
Currently 36+1weeks.

[TaxSeason2017]

Deposit came first. 2/22, one day earlier than WMR predicted.

Sbbt funds updated this morning at 6:15am, deposit sent to NetSpend and posted at 6:00pm. I actually received my refund faster this year than last year. So the PATH, wasn’t as bad. Even had an offset that was not taken, so all in all it was a quick and painless tax season.

Praying for a quick and as painless as possible labor anyday now for myself and you as well @momjess.

[$$$$]

Congrats on the money and for whenever the bread is done in the oven…. May the baby be healthy!!!

[momjess]

Just woke up to money in the bank, but no baby yet lol.

[Fe]

My ddd for 2/22 hit my account with PNC Bank at 12 central time. I’m taking my girls for ice cream after school lol

[Amra]

Just checking to see if either of you got your money or a baby yet? :)

[TaxSeason2017]

@amra, that’s my goal for this baby and any other babies, I’m trynna reach 12 too, Godwilling.

[Amra]

You totally deserve a pedicure!!

I hear you about the bills!

I need to buy a new car. The engine on mine went. That was about a month ago. I do however have a second car.

[momjess]

@amra I’m seeing a lot of 22’ers with cash in hand but my bank won’t do it. I even called them today and they said yea they do have it but it won’t be released to my account until Wednesday. What a tease lol. 90% of it is paying off and catching up bills so there’s not really any “fun money” to play with but still. I told hubby if I’m still pregnant Wednesday I’m at least going to get a pedicure since it hurts to try and reach my toes haha. And that’s kinda my end of pregnancy ritual, it’s the only time I treat myself to something like that.

[Amra]

@momjess I got a DDD of 2-22 as well. However I read on another thread that some who have that date have recieved the DD today.

[momjess]

Ddd came before baby lol.

Ddd is 2/22 and my bank (suntrust) doesn’t deposit it early so baby can still come before $$, which would be fine since my van is down and I don’t have money to go anywhere anyway lol.

[Amra]

@momjess

Very sorry to read that! I hope that you have other vehicles at the house?

[momjess]

Today’s exciting news… My van broke down lol. Starter went out. Just my luck.

[Amra]

@TaxSeason2017 Are you planning on having this one at home too?

[Dani217]

*luck

[Dani217]

Good look with your baby… I’ve checked on here almost everyday since you posted. Hopefully you get your refund this week and baby next week

[TaxSeason2017]

Did a homebirth with my 4th baby nothing like it so comfortable. I’ve been 4cm now for the last 3 weeks, I’m just ready to have him already.

[Amra]

@nessa79 You had a baby after having your tubes tied?

Surpise!! LOl
I did once after having my tubes tied think I was pregnant. All of the symptoms.. But the test said no. I have read that it can happen.

@mamajess I have never done a home birth But I admire those who do.
I would imagine that at baby 12 he will come quick.
Isn’t that how it works usually? Each one comes faster?

Mine did.

[wilson]

your baby will be cutting teeth b4 you get a deposit.

.im only kidding, I wish you the very best for a healthy deliver for you and your baby..

wison.

[nessa79]

I am hoping your refund comes tomorrow! Congrats on baby #12 (at first I thought is was a typo, lol. Than I read 8) I have 5, # 5 was a complete surprise since I had my tubes tied after #4. I thought I would go insane but the contrary. He (#5) really balanced us out. I love my family of 7 <3

[momjess]

The kids here sleep great, well the grand daughter doesn’t bit that’s my daughters problem not mine haha. I don’t sleep though just due to all those end of pregnancy “joys”.

I have a feeling it’ll be next week. My husband is switching jobs and will work 45 minutes away so it’ll be just my luck I go into labor his first week on the job and him not make it home in time. I tend to labor pretty fast. Having a home birth though so at least I won’t need to worry about making it to the hospital!

[Amra]

Awww… I was hoping for you Jess! The day is not over yet! But I suspect that you are well aware of the signs LOLOL

WOW! you have a one year old and a newborn on the way and you said above a 3month old grandchild there.
I do not know how you ever sleep LOL

My youngest is 20. (still lives here with us) (He moved back in after the traumatic loss of a close friend)
Probably to much info but this thread has turned into a nice mom chat :)

[momjess]

No twins here, oldest is 21 and youngest is 1. And no valentines baby, just grocery shopping and cooking and cleaning. Booorrrring!

[Amra]

Wow @TaxSeason !!!!

I really thought with 21 there would at least be one set of twins. Very interesting!!

Hoping that @Momjess is off having a valentines baby :)

[TaxSeason2017]

@amra no twins lol.

[Amra]

@momjess and @taxseason2017 I am curious of the 12 and the 21 wherre there any sets of twins?

I ask because it seems that happens more often with larger families.

[Amra]

MomJess, I imagine that once the children are home from school your day is very busy with homework and after school snacks and dinner etc etc etc.
Hopefully that will help the waiting time for Baby Boy and DDD Fly by faster :)

[TaxSeason2017]

My great grandmother had 21 children naturally pushed out of her body. I am the oldest of 7, my mother has 22 grandchildren, I am on my 5th child, two college degrees and have always worked to support my babies. I wish like hell I had 12, such a blessing. I think people forget that our nature is to reproduce and be fruitful. Congratulations @momjess, do that girl!!!! 😘

[momjess]

No baby and no ddd, just another day of waddling around trying to keep my mind off of both lol.

Plus side, my kids will bring home chocolate from their school Valentine parties haha.

[LJ]

Bumping this thread because it took my mind off of taxes for a bit yesterday. Any update? Do we have a new baby or are you out baby shopping with your refund?

[karin]

omg @ 12 babies!

[floridamomma]

I say first dd then baby and last ddd lol congrats on baby :)

[Amra]

schmidtkids that is a very sweet story :)

This thread has been a very enjoyable distraction today!

[Boss lady]

Tax time

[schmidtkids]

9 boys that is awesome. I had 2 girls then 2 boys and was told I couldn’t get pregnant anymore and I thought well ok I have 2 of each so that’s perfect. then 4 years later I was pregnant with twin boys and two years after that another boy lol I figured that another girl was not in the cards for me so stopped at 7 :D :D :D Now adopting 2 boys and a girl!!!

Congratulations to Mommy and Daddy!!!!!

[Ten1seven]

I have 4, they get on my damn nerves. Kudos to you on patience.

[momjess]

Eh I don’t let it get to me. I’ve heard every line there is lol. And bosslady, ‘dat’ may be ‘to many kids’ but to me the more the merrier. That’s not too many for me to love, house, feed and clothe so it’s all good :)

[Amra]

Boss Lady with all due respect… That is not for you to decide unless you are the one supporting them.

[Boss lady]

Dats way to many kids

[Amra]

Momjess Congrats on the baby boy!!

I have 3 boys and one girl. Ignore IRS insider he has been trolling this afternoon and been rude on a couple of threads.

Even with only 4 I heard such rude comments. Like it is anybody’s business how many children another has.

I think a big family is something to chearish. More people to love!

[Melissa616]

Im in the same boat as you… Im 35 weeks and already dialating, baby #3 doesnt want to wait lol… Good luck and hopefully we will have our littles in our arms soon – and by littles i mean our babies AND our refunds LOL

[LJ]

@IRSINSIDER are you jealous? She gets tons and tons of love every day. Trust me whatever her family gets in refund(and it is NONE of our business) is just a fraction of what it cost to raise her wonderfully large family.

Stop being rude.

Poopy Head. Yes poopy head, if your going to be childish so shall I.

You go momjess keep up the good work, looks like you get laid more than the IRS insider does. Good for you.

Still banking on the baby before the refund.

Either way you are on the right PATH! LOL

[momjess]

Don’t I wish @taxinsider.

[IRS INSIDER]

you get $500,000 back with all those kids?

[momjess]

@IRS insider – pretty rude there. Too bad money can’t buy you a little respectfullness. You have to get a little more original than that to offend me too, think I haven’t heard them all?

[IRS INSIDER]

birth control with refund

[momjess]

@amra My 9th boy

@tax season2017 Congrats to you as well!

[ladyleo]

12 is awesome! I am my parents 12th child, and I have a baby sister. Yep 13 of us!!!

[Amra]

Momjess, yes please do keep us posted :)

DO you know if a girl or boy? Must never be a dull moment in your home!

[TaxSeason2017]

In the exact same boat, baby due March 9, 2017. Congratulations!!!! And we will see which will come first.

[momjess]

@LJ wish they really were cheaper by the dozen lol. Although with so many they don’t even take any federal taxes out of my husband’s pay anymore! Plus we still get a refund so that’s nice. Too bad eitc and actc have a cap though.

I’ll be sure to update when both the refund and baby deliveries happen :)

[Amra]

Baby #12! WOW!! Congrats!!

I think the baby will come first :)

[LJ]

I love the movie Cheaper By The Dozen. The original. The book was even better.
As a young woman I always wanted 12 children, however my youngest of my 3 just turned 18 and life is SOOSOO great right now.
Bring on the grand-babies!

You are a wonderful inspiration.

BTW… I am watching this thread more than the Refund threads now. LOL

[momjess]

Lol @LJ very true!

[momjess]

@dollskin yes, plus a 3 month old granddaughter, all living at home. (And yes, this is the last one lol)

[Gi]

Jeez, you are more patient than I!

[WillBeas]

Congrats!! Lets go with 🚼!!

@LJ LMAO

[Dollskin]

@momjess – you have 11 kids?

[LJ]

I say baby! Plus it will bring you longer lasting joy than the refund.
Congratulations.
My the odds be ever in your favor.

[Author]

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